Smart Money Mindset

Like watching TV or movies? You could be programming your brain for financial suicide!

TV and movies are full of false values or beliefs, also known as “Memes”, that we pick up and believe in without even realising. Some of the worst are around money and wealth. By getting these into your head you could be sabotaging your financial success without even realising.

Movies Are Keeping You Poor!
Think about movies for a second. My favourite for this is Titanic (I’m not saying that’s my favourite movie by the way!).

“The Rich Are the Bad Guys”
Do you remember the dinner scenes? They show all the rich people being boring and stuffy, arrogant, and you get a sense of Kate Winslet (the heroine) being restricted, uncomfortable, and that the people around her are untrustworthy. And the main bad guy in the movie is here, her rich fiance.

“Poor People Have More Fun”
Meanwhile down below the poor people are partying like mad! Lots of smiling, fun, drinking, and a really warm and friendly environment, and our poor hero Leonardo di Caprio in the middle of it having the time of his life! The place our heroine would rather be.

Do you really think that’s what it was like on the Titanic? Where did you get that belief from? Who told you that?

Think about the movies you watch and you’ll find the above is usually true. There is a hidden message that being rich leads to unhappiness and being poor is somehow more honest and real, and even respected.

“It’s Romantic to Sacrifice Wealth”
And at the end of the movie what happens? Rose’s granddaughter and husband are spending thousands searching for treasure, the necklace with the huge diamond. And what does Rose do with it? Throw it in the sea?! So it can be with her dead lover?! How romantic?!

How about taking that diamond and giving it to her granddaughter so she can financially secure her and her descendants for years to come – so they never have to worry about money, paying for school, medical care if they get sick? Nope, it’s on its way back to Leo so he can do God knows what with it… because that’s the “right” thing to do? Give me a break…

Want To Be Wealthy? Don’t Watch Dallas!
If you watch a lot of television you’ll see the same values or beliefs within those. Take programmes like Dallas, Dynasty or even recently The O.C.

“Having Money Means More Problems”
In these programmes in the first episode everyone has money and all looks well on the surface… but before long the story lines take hold – like one character losing all their money due to a crooked business partner or accountant; kids out of control due to all the money their rich parents give them; those same kids taking drugs and needing to go into rehab; adultery; domestic violence; robbery; threats etc. etc.

What does that condition your brain to think? That being rich is all one big party? Not quite.

More like:

“Well if I get rich, I could lose it all, lose my wife/husband, my kids could become drug-addicted criminals, and people will come and try and steal my money”

… think about it, how many of those beliefs do you currently hold about becoming wealthy? What’s the conclusion?

“Well, maybe it’s better to have a little money, but not too much cause I don’t want to turn into an asshole and get my kids screwed up”

Really have a think about it – what beliefs do you have about becoming wealthy and where did you get them from? These beliefs are almost certainly holding you back from what you want financially.